Exploring new ways to pleasure yourself or your partner should never be taboo. It should be the complete opposite, fun and exciting, and that's exactly why you're here, to learn how and why anal play can take your sex life to a whole new level.
Here are some tips and tricks you should know about anal beads and how you can use them for a prostate orgasm.
All Are Welcome
Gender is not a factor in backdoor pleasure sessions because both men and women can find much pleasure from anal stimulation, thanks to the thousands of nerve endings in all areas of the butt. Some are lucky enough to experience stronger, more intense orgasms when anal play is introduced during sex or masturbation, and sex toys — like anal beads or anal trainer butt plug sets — are a great way for those to experiment in that area.
Please Use The Rear Entrance
What's the prostate, you ask? Only cisgender men and people assigned as male at birth have a prostate, but that doesn't mean that other people can't get in on the fun.
The 'P-spot' AKA the 'male G-spot' is located just in front of the rectum and is pretty easy to locate when you're aroused since it increases in size. But going in through the rear is the most direct way of finding that fleshy wee bulb, about an inch wide and 3 to 4 inches up inside the butt. The prostate feels a lot different from the rest of the lining, so you'll know when you find it.
Cleaning In Progress
Good hygiene is key to your sexual wellness and anal play. So, whether you're playing alone or together, a relaxing bath or shower is a great way for both mind and body to be ready for an anal play session. Beginners should take special note that being fresh and clean will also add a new level of confidence.
The next step is internal cleansing, made easy with an intimate anal cleanser — the perfect way to get clean and fresh and maybe even a little naughty!
Slippery When Wet
Do. Not. Forget. The. Lube. We're serious — you don't want to learn the hard way! The interior of your derrière is quite delicate and susceptible to cuts and tears, so it's very important to use ample amounts of lube and take things slowly until you're comfortable with the new sensation.
Also, pay close attention to what lubrication you're using, 'cause the wrong type of lube can ruin your toy. Most require water-based lubes as silicone can damage toys.
Entry By Permit Only
Be as relaxed as possible and open your mind up to this exciting new experience. After all, it's meant to be enjoyable! Get into the mood with some foreplay in exploration and massage around the butt and perineum.
After experimenting with a finger or two, beginners can graduate to anal beads. Make sure you use a super-flexible anal bead made of silky-smooth medical-grade silicone that's body-safe and phthalate-free. When you're about to climax, slowly start pulling the well-lubed beads out one by one, and — we'll let you experience that for yourself.
Open Your Mind And Your Cheeks
Whatever toy you choose, and however you use it, a whole new world of pleasure is waiting for you.
